very sparkly, but long earring is too heavy

I so Love the look, bright and sparkle a lot. long earring arrived w/ a stone missing but bloomingdales customer service fixed that, no problem! My negative is that the long earring is heavy. And all of the weight is where the earring post is, at the top of the earring, which is a narrow little piece. (Sometimes if an earring is heavy but its like a flat big button format at the top to provide support, its not uncomfortable.) This one feels like I would have to barely move my head if I wore these, and that my earring hole is getting stretched out. The short earring is comfy and light tho!